What do you do when you let go of something because the dynamics are all wrong and after all your efforts it just never fixes itself or gets fixed? And when you let it go you're miserable.  You want it back.  Even if it is the way it was before. You can't do without it. And one fine day it comes back. And you're glad. But then there's no acknowledgement.  You don't know if its actually back. It seems like its back with an exit strategy.  That's why the idea of a clear cut statement never materialises.  what do you do if it goes back to being the same as before but without the fix it needed. What if you still face the same problem with it.  What if you're so afraid to rock the boat again that you're unable to even say what's bothering you like you could before. What if the idea of letting it go crosses your mind again?  WHAT DO YOU DO?